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TODAY'S BLOG POST IS INSPIRED BY A READER'S COMMENT ABOUT A POST DR. PAUL WROTE ON NOV. 1, 2012, "ANOTHER MARRIAGE LOST TO PARKINSON'S".

Anonymous:

There are several givens when we talk about Parkinsons. It is chronic. It tends to get worse over time. It is unpredictable. It is likely to be some time before medical science learns how to cure it and somewhat longer before it learns how to reverse it. And it can be difficult for another person to live with.

These are the facts you face if you enter into a relationship with a person who has the disease. These are the facts the gentleman with Parkinsons faces, as well.

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Parkinson's and the Winds of Heaven

You shall be together when white wings of death scatter your days.
Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of heavens dance between you.
- Kahlil Gibran’s

Recently, my work with families touched by Parkinson’s has caused me think of a verse about marriage in Kahlil Gibran’s classic, The Prophet. Much of the stress and difficulty arising in the PD relationships can be traced to forgetting to “let the winds of heaven dance between you” (the partners). This failure is what therapists call emotional dependence.

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Paul Short, PhD

Dr. Paul Short, The Parkinson's Coach, provides Internet-based coaching to individuals and famlies challenged by Parkinson's disease and helps them develop personalized plans for coping with the disease.